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Then CONGRATULATIONS! You're invited to be more need-responsive to each other. You're afforded the opportunity to express your need to melt the chains of alienation like a hot knife cutting through butter. This is our way to introduce you to this new way to solve problems by resolving needs. Which removes cause for pain. And enables us to reach more of our life's potential. Welcome to what the power of love can do for you.
There are three different ways you can be invited. And three different ways you can invite others to express their need to you. Three ways to spread some love.
1) INVITATION video
Were you invited to express your need with this short video? If inviting another to express a need to you, you can forward this video to them. Right click on it to select an option best for you.
2) INVITATION card
Were you invited to express your need with this meme? If inviting others to express a need to you, you can print out your own cards. You just have to print both sides, preferably on cardstock, and then cut it into four.
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3) INVITATION meme
Were you invited to express your need with this meme? If inviting another to express a need to you, you can download this meme and post it in your social media accounts like Facebook or X.
However you use this invitation, think of it as a "warmup" for a possible "wellness campaign" to resolve needs. Or you can simply stop there and see if it helps improve your relations.
Let's address what this INVITATION can mean for you.
Scroll down further for options to respond to this innovative idea.
So your invited to express a need
Someone who knows you just sent you a curious invitation. You probably never before received an invitation to directly express a need the sender pledges to honor shortly after.
Whether invited verbally in person with an INVITATION card or online by an INVITATION video, or both, you're now honored to share being
more need-responsive
than feel-reactive.
Let's break downs some key comparisons.
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respond to needs with discipline resolve needs over relieving pain prioritize resolving needs to remove pain prioritize resolving both side’s needs correlating with better health outcomes | react on feelings without reflection relieving pain over resolving needs prioritize easing pain that perpetuates pain prioritize one side’s needs over other side’s correlating with poor health outcomes |
Let's apply this need-responsive alternative when replying to your invitation to express a need.
Your invitation
Now that you are invited to benefit from need-response...
you may be wondering,
What in the world is need-response?
Need-response is a new professional service for resolving needs.
All other professional services like
psychological services (counseling, psychiatry),
medical services,
legal services (judicial, political),
educational services,
entertaining services...
focus more on relieving pain
of your unmet needs.
Every unresolved need
risks leaving you in more pain.
That's a key reason
these institutions are failing.
That's a big cause
why we don't trust them anymore.
Only need-response
aims to fully resolve needs
to remove cause for pain.
This can bring out more of our potential
for love,
or mutual respect for each other.
And these are just some of the
benefits of need-response.
Need-response encourages the sender
to now demonstrate their loving respect
for your stated needs.
So the sender asks you...
Is there anything I can do to improve how I respect you and your needs?
The sender is to wait for your response
before expressing if you could improve
any respect for them
and their needs.
Unless you prefer the sender to express express their need now.
Maybe you prefer they express their need first.
You could then use that as a model to express your need to them.
They are encouraged to follow the "praise sandwich" format, but you don't have to.
Good news: Thanking you for what you already do for them.
Bad news: Giving less pleasant news of their dissatisfied need.
Good news: Concluding with affirming your intent to continue mutual respect.
This format is a great way to cultivate trust
and our potential for mutual respect of love.
Before get too deep into the weeds about their expressed need, let's focus now on responding with your own need.
Your response
After you're invited, you can take one of the five following options.
When responding to an invitation to respond better to your needs, it helps if you can keep it…
simple, not complicated,
easy, not too challenging,
brief, won't take too long,
specific, not too vague to do,
actionable, not abstract, and
meaningful, satisfies a need.
Examples of what the sender could do for you:
express overdue gratitude;
give a hug;
apologize for something;
listen and show you understand;
give and take a complement.
Let's replace our old habits of
isolation,
alienation,
disappointed expectations,
hostilities,
outrage and more
with new habits of
mutual empathy,
mutual forgiveness & mercy,
mutual understanding,
mutual respect,
mutual support and more.
Together with this new approach of need-response...
Let's spread some love.
Your responsiveness to this unique way to improve our lives
Your turn. Consider one or more of these options to respond to this need-responsive content.
You could incentivize a more need-responsive reply with what anankelogy refers to as a character refunction. You will recognize these laudable traits, such as kindness and forgiveness. You could download this brochure or forward the link as a way to address each other's affected needs.
Learn more about a wellness campaign to appreciate what this ultimately about.
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