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Responsive Wellness

Responsivism answers the shortcomings of activism.

Responsivism is the belief and practice that responding to the unchosen needs of others can produce more favorable results than defensive-provoking adversarial alternatives.

Responsivism answers the shortcomings of legalism.

Preparing the way

Responsivism serves as a precursor to a potential wellness campaign. Such a campaign demands collective effort. Before you can attract interest, you may need to start small, with a personal wellness initiative. The more responsive to the needs of others, the more responsive they'll likely be to you.

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Any individual can start a wellness initiative with any of these responsive tools. You download the tool yourself. You fill in the fields and see the relevant results. You engage others without having to first wait on others. You take charge to address your overlooked needs.

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Needs over laws​

Your every need exists as an objective fact. This truism inspires a different approach to conflicts, to problems, and toward those in positions of power.

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For starters, expecting others to change their minds as a trusted way to address your needs repeatedly fails. Now we can understand why. Now we have a fresh approach, to more effectively identify and address our needs.

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Responsivism answers the many limitations inherent in adversarial activism.

Responsivism begins with you, on a personal level. Start asking what you can do for others. No quid pro quo. Just to stretch your potential to be more giving.

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Responsivism answers the many baked-in limits of legalistic activism. Here are just a few.

Toxic legalism

fails to solve your problems.

tends to perpetuate pain and problems

relies more on generalizations to evade uncomfortable nuance

intent toward relieving own pain at other's expense

typically provokes mutual defensiveness, provoking pain

aims to ease needs, manage pain & cope with poor wellness

Responsivism

can solve more problems.

potential to resolve problems and remove cause for pain

faithfully engages nuance to address all relevant needs

intent toward resolving all needs to remove cause for pain

cultivates mutual understanding of each other's needs

aims to resolve needs, remove pain, & restore wellness

Responsive Wellness Tools

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Personally Responsive

Attract social capital

To send to your friends

and family members.

Break the ice of your isolation with kind acts offered to others. Help others melt their alienation.

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Establish your reputation as more responsive to each other's overlooked needs.

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Properly Responsive

Grow social capital

To send to your colleagues, coworkers, classmates, etc.

Replace mindless obedience to laws and social norms with mutual responsiveness to needs.

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Expand your public profile as one more responsive to needs than impersonal authorities.

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Professionally Respon.

Incentivize wellness support

To send to professionals you interact with frequently.

Motivate professionals to respond better to your specific and oft-overlooked needs.

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Hold each other accountable by replacing nasty adversarialism with mutual supports.

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Powerfully Responsive

Speak truth to power

To send to authority figures prone to giving you a cold shoulder.

Stretch beyond impersonal authorities by demonstrating greater responsiveness to needs.

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Raise the standard of our behavior with the power of love to honor each other's needs.

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Responsivism 'wellness initiative' tools

Personally Responsive

Properly Responsive

comparison chart contrasting need-response wellness campaign with responsivism wellness initiative
Happy Couple

Solve more problems with love

Before you try to improve your relations with others, be sure you have adequately improved yourself. Use these tools to improve your 'easement orientation' and your 'conflict orientation'. Stretch your comfort zone to resolve more needs. And turn conflicts into opportunities of mutual support.

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Personally Responsive

Melt alienation with acts of kindness

How well do you know what others need of you? How well do others know what you need of them? Replace disappointments with this proactive engagement of each other's unexpressed needs.

Sunlight Portrait

NOT YET READY

Properly Responsive

Melt alienation with kind acts

How well do you know what others need of you? How well do others know what you need of them? Replace disappointments with this proactive engagement of each other's unexpressed needs.

Law Professional

Professionally Responsive

Improve responsiveness of powerholders

Professional relations can quickly turn transactional. "Toxic legalism" takes over. You easily concede respect for your needs to those in positions of power. Use this "exaction invoice" to incentivize improving their responsiveness to you.

Professional Male

NOT YET READY

Powerfully Responsive

Earn legitimacy with honed impact data

How well do you know what others need of you? How well do others know what you need of them? Replace disappointments with this proactive engagement of each other's unexpressed needs. exact

Blue Skies

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