Engage. Instead of ignoring or even opposing the needs of the other side in a conflict, try to find out what those needs are.

Engage others to respond more effectively to their needs. And grow your reputation as more responsive than most.

CONGRATULATIONS! You're invited to be more need-responsive to each other. Those invited are afforded the opportunity to express a need.

Any discussion around politics that doesn't first address our different priority of inflexible needs quickly runs into errors. The more...